Ephesians 5:25-28 “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any blemish, but holy and blameless”.
When Paul was writing this he defined the role of a husband in full and husbands must match up to this standard.
The bible say’s “for God so LOVED the church that he gave…..” (John 3:16in part). Husbands must not be selfish; they must be generous to their wives, because love is expressed in selflessness.
The wife did not leave her parents place to be living in the house alone (house, money, car... te nsansa). She did come to join you for food, what she needs is someone to love her and be with her. Women can leave in shark as long as there is love, and women can leave a well furnished house to go for a worker or a poor man’s house that shows her love. Please if you are not ready to love, don’t marry. Men have hindered women from knowing the love of God; this is why women are defiant and un-submissive today
1 John 4:19 “We love him, because he first loved us.”
The women only respond to the love that the husband gives her. If the woman experiences the love from her husband and responds to it, it is “explosive”
They must be ready to die for their wives, and put their necks on the line for the wives.
Husbands must look after their wives “Just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” (Ephesians 5:25)
Christ died to protect the church, so men must protect their wives. Attacks from your sisters, mother, friends and anyone must be shielded by you. This is so because no matter how much you love your mother, sister or brother, you can’t be one with them, and even if you wanted you are not allowed.
Clothe your wife with good clothes and good words. A woman must have more clothes than a man; men must not compete with their wives for clothes. Your wife must look good and beautiful. You must also complement her every time, and not wait for other people to complement her. Women are made to look beautiful and attractive and you wife mus stay attractive otherwise you will leave for someone else’s.
Complement you wife in front of your children and your relatives, so that they know you love your wife.
Appeal, is that all men should love their wives like Christ did, and this world would be a far much better place to live in.